e've all done it. You're trying to watch what you eat, so far through lunch your doing great. "This isn't so bad" you think, and eat a sensible dinner. A family member makes brownies and sets them on the stove to cool off. Before bed you decide to do a load of laundry. You pass by the kitchen and see the half eaten tray of brownies. They look good. You get wash cycle going and on the way back through the kitchen you catch a second glimpse. Before you know it your hand automatically reaches for the spatula and in a blink you have a plateful of brownies about to be devored. Huge diet fail.
But how do we get from good breakfast/lunch/dinner to half platters of brownies.
It helps to have the family on board with the diet, but I don't expect my kids to scarf chicken and brocoli every night. The motivation is there during the day. So why do people fail to carry out diets any longer than a few days at a time.
We don't itemize our homes and we automatically grab at shitty food because it makes us feel good. I call it auto-grabbing. Think I'm kidding? Your best intentions are usually met with subverse thoughts way below the surface all day long. This builds up and at night, or day, the hand just reaches out.
I've experienced auto-grabs before and usually there isn't a ton of pre-meditated rationalizing like "brownies have milk in them, that's good for me. Oh and cocoa was in the news last week, they said it helps something blah blah". No, your intentions are good and the hand reaches out, boom, your off the diet - there's always tomorrow.
How do I get around this? For one I don't bury my head in the sand and pretend like there isn't shitty food in the house. I look and take stock. Graham cracker and pretzles in cupboard, brownies in covered plate on counter, etc. I know were everything is and am prepared for it. I've choosen this diet so why not prepare what your thoughts will be. There are no food surprizes when I go through the kitchen.
I also mentally prepare for my mind to ask everytime something like cake or pretzels is out on a counter or someones eating them in close proximity - no tasting. No fingerfulls, no pinch of this or that, no reaching out to touch - nothing. It WILL lead to platefuls and failed diets. I prepare for this stuff because our minds work against us. They want those quick carbs and will tell you reasons why tomorrow is ok, or next week or year.
I have my bail food ready in the fridge. If I start geeking late, I throw down a chicken breast and drink a flavored water(s). If I keep geeking usually it's time to get my ass to bed.
Stay on a diet for awhile and it gets a lot easier but the first few weeks are always hard to get off the ground.
So to recap-
Know were crappy food is in your house. Don't pretend it ain't there.
Plan you dinner and bail snacks for late night. This means cooking the PREVIOUS day some chicken usually. I plan to cook a bag of chicken every other day. Sometimes family members who aren't dieting will scarf my diet chicken. This problem is easily over come by seasoning every chicken breast with Old Bay Seasoning. I know, it's higher sodium, but it keeps my chicken from being used in some casserole or dinner for family members that don't worry about their eating habits. Plus, I grew up in Maryland, and Bay Seasoning is used on crabs - nothing tastes better.
Workout at night. It really helps hunger cravings for me, helps me sleep better, and gives my body 8 hours of instant recovery. Morning workouts are hard, you have to rush, plus you have to wake up stiff muscles. I'll pass.
Learn what your mind is gonna tell you about shitty food. Usually it's "let's just taste it" or "tomorrow you pick the diet back up" or my fave, "the p90x people won't know your blowing your diet because they're just DVD's". When your craving crappy food the mind will say anything.
Eat enough protein like chicken, eggs and fiber and you'll be full and won't get hungry. Brocoli is KING for this. I buy bags of it. A pinch of shredded cheese and it's pretty good.
Do this stuff and the PAYBACK is your waistline becomes a flat sumbitch. Imagine a waist were there is no bulge between shirt and pants. Were you can see your belt. Muscle actually have separation to them. People ask what is different about you.
Part of good dietingis also picking a good diet and TRUSTING that it works. Many quit after 2-3 days because they haven't dropped 5 pounds from jump.
Think of it like this. The body is like an elevator. If your on the 9th floor and want off on 10 by quickly pushing 10, guess what, you probably will go up to 11 first before stopping. The body is the same. It needs a second to turn around. Once it gets to losing weight, it comes pretty easily and the body obliges in that direction.
Don't get resentful at family members for eating shitty food in front of you. First we love them. Second - you choose to diet because at some point you choose to eat way too much shitty food. You did the crime and lost the priviledge not them. Resentments of this kind are worthless and should be met with this understanding.
I just wanted to share this stuff because successful dieting is pretty easy but you have to plan your ass off. Shooting from the cuff DOESN'T work. What is that you ask? It would be like heading into Friday night with no cooked chicken or brocoli in the fridge. Or even worse, none in the house, oh and your family members who we can't be resentful towards - they just ordered pizza. "Hey hon, you want any of this deep dish Chicago style with garlic bread, they didn't eat much, it's in the kitchen". Fuck, I can pick this diet up again in the morning, Chicago deep dish and a movie here I come. And there goes the beltline. Yes, they are mutually exclusive. See were I'm going with this. Plan and stick to it.
Yesterday was Chest and shoulders. Prior to that I had Thanksgiving with my mom. What to eat at T-giving. For me, 2 servings of turkey and ham followed with green beans. No stuffing, mashed potatos, or cheesecake.
I knew after a rest week this workout would suck. It did. My power was off and dropped to nothing by the end. Even so, 17 wide pull ups was a good sign of improvement. My vasularity is really coming in right now. At 161 Saturday, I'm close to my goal. I don't know if I'll get to 155 in these 4 weeks. I think it will be close, but those last 2-3 are gonna be slow. We'll see.
I was so spent yesterday, I could't finishing my ab routine within the 15 minutes ab ripper x is on. Tony left the lights on.
Tonight is scheduled plyo. Since I pulled that back muscle last week, I may decide to run on treadmill instead of plyo. I man up to anything, but take no chances with my back and while plyo doesn't hurt my back, there is impact involved. I'll decide later today what to do. On the treadmill I still burn 500 calories so it isn't like a vacation of any sorts.
Thanks for reading
Billy